“Secrets, scandals and lies” do exist, and some individuals will take those to their graves. However, DNA results may enrich as well as rewrite the story of who you thought you were, and how you got here. In addition, while waiting for your DNA results to arrive, you should determine how you would respond prior to receiving them. Should you publicly share your results with others? Suppose you find out that your father is not your biological father?” “Or your sister is your half-sister?” Are you an adoptee searching for your biological parents? What is the right thing to do when you feel the need to disclose information that maybe emotionally harmful?